Self-Confidence is Captive and Challenge is the key to unlock it
I always loved the phrase “SELF CONFIDENCE”, the mere thought of this phrase would make me feel the heat in my brain and an urge to achieve something would be at its best. This urge to achieve would grow into a verge of getting into a dream which never became reality (I hope you have read my previous article “Dream in Depth”).
So, How do we convert this self confidence and urge to achieve into a well documented success?
A successful man is the one whose goals are achieved irrespective of them getting noticed by others. I mean to say, success of a person is decided by himself and a person can feel successful only when he can prove to his consciousnesses completely that he has sincerely completed the task taken up. Believe me, its relatively very easy to prove things to others than to our self.
A daydreamer always thinks of getting noticed and a capable man only concentrates on the goal to be achieved (I have experienced both the phases of a daydreamer and a capable man 
). With respect to confidence, both the daydreamer and the capable man will be confident in their ventures, but success seldom comes to a daydreamer.
Well, when a daydreamer is confident, his intensions and dreams will be focusing only on the appreciation, where as when a capable man is confident, his focus will be completely on the work to be done, he never cares about the appreciation and he loves satisfaction.
So, what is real self confidence?
We might have seen many instances where a crazy man whom we thought was not capable of doing anything or not serious of what he does, suddenly becomes successful in a serious venture. For example, Mr.Steve Jobs. He was a college drop out, just did things what he loved to do and was respected only after his inception of Apple.
Steve Jobs loved what he did, he wanted his love to win. Since his love was true, he took it as a challenge that gave him the required self confidence and helped him drive his love to the warmth of success.
This even describes what true love is, isn’t it? ha ha 
Anyways, self confidence is something which is present in enormous amount within everyone, but it is captive and locked up with a strong lock made up of aspects leading to the inception of a daydreamer within our self. To get the power of this captive self confidence, we need to have a key of challenge to unlock it and to handle that great energy of self confidence released through challenge, we got to have plenty of patience and perseverance.
Alright, just shared a couple of understandings from the experiences with my crazy brain, hope it din’t strain your brain 
Please share your thoughts on the article 
Cheeers………
-Pram
very nice article da..awesome
ur lines
1.its relatively very easy to prove things to others than to our self……………….///////. this line is 100% true coz we know ultimate truth about ourselves
2.when a capable man is confident, his focus will be completely on the work to be done, he never cares about the appreciation and he loves satisfaction…………////// exactly thats y many people wil boast themselves in fb for APPRECIATION …..but do not focus on their work
of course am not saying we should not put anything in facebook but some people are too much (EG : ” I HAD AWESOME COFEE IN BLAH BLAH WITH BLAH BLAH ” ……JUST TO GET APPRECIATION THAT HIS ENJOYING THE LIFE )
FINALLY ON A WHOLE AWESOME ARTICLE…..CHEERS
Thanks buddy
your comment is soo valuable 
THX DA
worth reading it..:) its nice..:)
GOOD job….
Thanks a lot sis
really a good one bro…. Two things under a single heading…. About Self confidence and True love…. four lines on Steve Jobs covered them both….
thanks for sharing….. hats off to your confidence in writing these type of articles and realizing things to us
Keep it up brother
Thanks for your time and clear observation of things bro
feeling good 
“A successful man is the one whose goals are achieved irrespective of them getting noticed by others. I mean to say, success of a person is decided by himself and a person can feel successful only when he can prove to his consciousnesses completely that he has sincerely completed the task taken up. Believe me, its relatively very easy to prove things to others than to our self.”
These lines are fantastic pram,(except last sentence) uplifting understanding & presentation. And i acknowledge u for truly accepting that u were in the stage of day dreamer too!
Well i am inspired, this article of yours aims at people who have energy but miss ventured in making happy some one. If we understand few basic principles of ‘others’ we wont experiment again in proving our self to others. others have their own needs, they might be jealous some times too, they may unnotice us too! so finally we wont feel happy for not proving inspite of our hard work!
And about the last sentence of my favorite phrase, i feel proving to ourself is easy than some one else, because no one knows others’ expectation! and we know well what we need!
But ultimately a timely article you wrote, for me!! thanks
go ahead, make your day….
Thanks a lot Santhosh
Its really amazing that this piece of my writing has got its share of respect
Cheeers
Write something about work or action…..
Success is only for the few who really want the work (not glory)